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Strategy For Having Your Ex Girlfriend Come Back When Want Her Back
This advice is simple but very effective as long as you are willing to put in some time and effort. In order for it to work you also have to be willing to face some things about the person you are and be willing to make some changes.
First of all do not panic! This article can help you if you can keep a calm, and cool mind. Second empty your mind of any preconcieved notions and throw every thing you think you know about getting her back out the window. It takes a very specific approach to get your ex girlfriend back.
Things To Avoid
The classic and most common mistake is bombarding your ex girlfriend with calls and/or text messages. This generally takes the form of begging for forgiveness and pleading with her to take you back.
Of course soon she is going to be very annoyed at not being left alone, and not having enough space to get her own thoughts and emotions straight. It will not be long before she stops accepting any kind of communication from you at all.
Keep cool, use common sense if you want her back , if you are getting angry that is certainly not going to help. By acting angry or giving out threats or ultimatums you are just digging a deeper hole. Keep this up and you can throw your chances in that hole and drag the dirt over them, because your chances are dead.
Repairing The Relationship
If the question is will she return to me, think of the reasons why she would not. There has to be a reason why you two broke up, what were you doing that fueled her desire to end things?
You are going to have to honestly look at your own behavior and actions in the days and weeks preceding the relationships downfall. In order for it to work you also have to be willing to face some things about the person you are and be willing to make some changes.
When you determine what those things were, you need to change them. You can not simply tell her you need to show her if you wnt her back. Work on improving your negative qualities. Show your ex that you have learned from your mistakes.
During this time always be hard at work highlighting the qualities she loved most about you. She fell completely in love with you once and you need to show her that you are that same man now.
There Is A Lot More To Learn
All this is just plain common sense solutions to get your ex girlfriend to come back, but unfortunately this is just a small part, without a lot of details. There is a lot more like learning and understanding on how to push the right buttons in a woman, and what she wants and desires in a relationship (you may be surprised).
Plus the actual reuniting takes some thought and planning to do it correctly without making any serious blunders. You want to have her back, not as 'just friends', or to have her decide that she should move on. This has to be done right, you may not get a second chance.
This whole article has been just one part of an overall plan, there is more. You can learn some psychological techniques to make your ex girlfriend come back willingly, and many other things to get her back.
This advice comes from T.W. Jackson's hugely popuar post-relationship manual The Magic Of Making Up. You can download the entire plan with all the details at his website, it is available right now.
