subject: Stop The Heart Ache, Get Back With Your Ex [print this page] Stop The Heart Ache, Get Back With Your Ex
March 7,2011
A heart ache is one of the most devastating pains any one person can endure at times, and bring the mightiest to their knees. Wars have been won and lost because of heart aches, yet life goes on despite the pain brought on by the loss of love.
If you suffer from a heart ache because you`re ex broke up with you, there is only two things you can do. You can sit back and suffer the effects of a heart ache or you can get up on your horse and think of what went wrong and go after your ex love.
Don`t let a broken heart do the thinking for you. Talk to someone you trust and explain to them what it means to get your ex back in your arms again. I know the first thing that comes to mind is to call or text her/him and grovel about your missing them and how much you want them back, but this is the wrong approach.
By not letting your ex know that you miss him/her will leave your ex wondering and that will play out in your court in time. Curiosity will always get the cat.
It will help keep your mind off your ex if you stay preoccupied doing things you haven't done in a while like going out with your friends, taking in a show, or visit the old stomping grounds once in a while and see some old friends. The main thing here is to let some time pass before you make an attempt to reconcile with your ex. This approach will give you some time to clear your head, calm down, and think about what you are going to say to your ex when you do meet her/him again.
If you happen to meet your ex at a function or a party where you both were invited than speak to your ex on a friendly courteous basis only then excuse yourself, do not bring up the fact that you miss him/her or that your heart is aching. Over time, curiosity will get the best of your ex and they will contact you wondering how things are going. Tell your ex that things are fine and mention what you have been doing lately with friends or family.
Let your ex make the first move in getting back together. If she/he brings up the break-up, than say you're sorry that it happened and maybe mention the good times you both once had and that maybe you could both meet and have coffee or a drink somewhere.
If your ex warms up to this, than meet for a time and talk about the old times you had together. At some point later in the meeting, if things are going well, you can take your relationship to the next level and suggest a dinner or a movie the next time you meet.
The main thing is to take your time in getting back with your ex and never lead on that you have been suffering from a broken heart.
Always be thinking in the back of your mind how you could make things better when you do get back with your ex so this doesn't happen again. Think of the little things that you know will make your ex feel special and appreciate.
Take the time necessary to think about the relationship you had and what it means to you to get it back.
