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If you have already mastered the basics of performing oral sex on women and are looking for some advanced tips to keep women sexually addicted to you, you may find new ideas below. You should not restrict yourself to just one technique in performing cunnilingus. In trying to bring a woman to orgasm, you should be adventurous, creative and be attentive to what your partner is telling you both verbally and non-verbally.
Here is how:
(1) Writing ABCs with your tongue
To get her gradually into the orgasmic stage, you use your tongue to "write" from A to Z on your partner's vulva and clitoris. While doing this, you need not follow strictly the sequence of the alphabets because your main objective here is getting both of you to enjoy the whole lovemaking process. This is a very creative way in using your tongue to drive her wild and in the process you will be able to find out which "alphabets" she prefers.
(2) Maintain visual contact
While you are busily licking the area between her legs, once in a while, do make some eye contact with her. This gives you a sort of feedback loop for both of you to indicate how much you enjoy what is happening and to give her that naughty and lustful look that can turn her on.
(3) Give her room for maneuver
It is important to allow her to adjust her body so that your tongue is on the right spot. Therefore you should not read too much on her occasional fidgeting as a sign of displeasure. It will be better if you can get her to tell you or show you what works and what does not work.
(4) Get creative with your tongue
You can experiment with the way you use your tongue to see how she likes to be licked. A tongue that is curled up or rolled into a tube feels different from one which is wide and flat. The tip of your tongue feels different to her than the side edge or the middle flat part of the tongue.
(5) Include other parts of your body to stimulate her
Besides using your tongue, you can use other parts of your body on your partner's genitals as well. Your chin, your nose and cheeks create different sensations and pressures when each of these parts is rubbed against the vulva and clitoris.
(6) Tongue penetration
Some women enjoy the sensation of her partner's tongue going inside her. As always, every woman is different, therefore this tongue thrusting method may not be applicable to every woman. Even for women who like this, some like a fast in-out motion while others like slow penetration.
(7) Make some noises
The noises or moaning that you make when you give her oral sex can let your partner feel you are enjoying and this can get her feel relaxed and progress into orgasm easily. In addition to this, the vibrations on your lips as well as your exhaling will serve to enrich her sensations and raise her arousal level.
(8) Add in some sucking motion
You can intensify her enjoyment by taking her labia (lips) or even clitoris into your mouth and gently creating a sucking sensation. Some women prefer a powerful sucking while others may just be contented with a hint of it. You can add in some more stimulation by moving your tongue when part of her labia or clitoris is in your mouth.
(9) Add in some ice cubes or sex toys
At some point when you give her oral sex, you can slip some ice cubes into your mouth to increase the sensation and sensitivity of your stimulation effort. Move the ice-cube(s) in your mouth so that sometimes it is in your cheek to provide the alternative hot and cold sensation. You can also either use a small vibrator for external stimulation or a dildo for penetration or even something to wear on your tongue to spice up your oral stimulation.
(10) Use your fingers
When she is high and excited, apply some lubricants on your fingers and gently insert them into her vagina. Move them in and out using short but firm strokes while you are licking her clitoris. This may not be suitable for all women, but quite a lot of them enjoy the experience of clitoral stimulation and penetration.
