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Face it, what do men really want when it comes to dating and meeting women? We want to get women into our bedrooms. We want to know that we can get laid whenever we want, and we want to know that we can go out and attract women in a way that makes them want to become physically intimate with us. You can beat around the bush all you want, but if you are looking to meet women, chances are... you want to know how to get women into bed with You.
For most guys, the best that they can hope for is that they get a little bit of random success here and there. Meaning, every once in a while things play out the way that they want them to, but most of the time... they are ending up spending the night by themselves. If you don't want to continue down this path, if you want to end up being the kind of guy that women go for, then you need to know the right things to do to seduce a woman.
Before you go out and look for all of the must know pick up lines and routines to try and get a woman into bed with you, there are more important things that can help you get laid more often. Truthfully, when you really know how to trigger sexual attraction in a woman, you don't need the lines nor the routines all that much
Here are 3 must know seduction secrets for guys that will help you discover how to get women into bed with You:
1) If you approach a woman obviously hoping for sex, you are going to fail.
Yes, there are times when you may cross paths with a woman who likes to be thought of as just a good time, but 9 times out of ten, the women that you meet do not want to be thought of as just a good time. And if you are sending out the message that you are a guy who is just looking to get laid, chances are it will not happen. Women want to feel like they are being won over, seduced, and swayed by a guy. They don't want to feel like just another pick up.
2) When you flirt with a woman, you have to test the boundaries a little.
Most men engage in safe flirting, meaning, they say nice things to her and give her compliments and smile way too much. All that does is flatter her a little, but it does not make her feel a lot of sexual attraction. You need to test the boundaries a little and take things a little beyond the safe flirting that most men do. Otherwise, you will end up with the same results all those other guys get, which is an empty bed at the end of the night.
3) You also need to be able to create sexual tension with a woman.
This is that secret ingredient that seperates the men who get laid and the guys who end up being just friends with a woman. There has to be a healthy amount of sexual tension, and she really has to feel it if she is going to go to be with you. Too little sexual tension and the most you can count on is a peck on the lips or the cheek and maybe a hug good bye. Just enough and you can end up waking up to her the next morning with a smile on your face.