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Best man speeches -the nerves
Best man speeches -the nerves

Most of is never have to worry about best man speeches, But for some of us, we have to worry a lot.

You have to stand up infront of a room full of people and talk.

Some people are fine with that, others just couldn`t ever do it,

So what happens if you are one of those, like me who coulod never do it,

then your day comes, your friand or brother decides to get married

and there you are the best man, best man speeches are now at the front of your mind

All you can think about is that fact that you will have to do something that you cant do.

What a position to be in, You have no choice, how can you say no.

Its an honour to be asked is it not, How rude if you wore to decline,

so then, you are doing it if you like it or not,

So what options do you have, Well let me tell you,

Your first option is one that you will likely take anyway.

That is alcohol, best man speeches always seem to look easier when you

have had a few, amI right, of course i am,but thats not it.

Alcohol is going to help most people with there best man speeches

but only with the delivery of the speech, you still need to have some good

content, you need something to say,"the right things" you need to know pretty much

when to say all these nice things, thats called the structure, so now we are getting there.

Content, Structure and delivery, that is what all good best man speeches are based on

so now you know what you need, take content for instance, that is just something to say.

that cant be hard now can it, Im sure that you have known the bride, groom and most of the guests

for a long time, so content should not be a problem, just think of some nice funny things to say.

there you go "not that easy I know" but you have content.

Now for the structure, You are going to want to lay your speech out in a set fashion.

Start with the general introduction and a nice welcome to all of the guests.

that should take you about a minute. Now move on to a short story about how you met, or

how long you have known the couple, or what you used to get upto when you wore younger.

There will be gone another couple of minutes, your almost there now,

all that is left to do is to wish all the best to the happy couple, say a few words and

raise the glasses, and there you go, you are done, you have just came out withone of thevery

personal loving interesting best mans speeches, everyone will give a clap, and you can sit down.

Thats not at all going to help you with the nerves thing, but jsut think that if you know roughly what you

have to say, and when you have to say it, you have one less thing to worry about,

best man speeches can seem quitefrightning atfirst, but you will be fine.

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