subject: Is it Ever Easy Getting Your Ex Back? [print this page] Is it Ever Easy Getting Your Ex Back? Is it Ever Easy Getting Your Ex Back?
How many times have you broken up with someone or had them breakup with you? Does it get easier with each breakup; do you become more disconnected with life just to get over the pain of the breakup? Do you feel perhaps your current relationship is on the verge of crumbling and want to correct whatever is broken before you go through a breakup?
You really should take some time and look at what you have, if it's something that you have always wanted then it's time to act and work on salvaging the relationship. The only reason to choose not to make the relationship work is if there if you were physical and verbal abused, think hard on this one, especially if they weren't willing to get the assistance required to work through the problem. Be sure to create a healthy environment by making healthy choices this will only give longevity and establish a much happier lifestyle for you and your family, these choices determine the life you lead. This is where success and failure are decided by the choices made by you or your companion.
When deciding to stay in your current relationship perhaps you should take some quick notes to understand what to do.
First
Be aware of your environment; listen to what is said when communicating with the people around you especially your companion. If you start doing everything that is required to make things right and they still want to separate then agree with their decision. Perhaps it's time for them to decide what path they really want to travel and require time to reflect and ponder.
Remember, in this kind of situation there isn't a right or a wrong, it is how things are and depending on how you deal with it will determine the outcome.
Be sure that this is who you want to be with for the rest of your life, and then stop all communication with them. This is also your time to make changes in your life to become a better father, mother, husband, wife or companion. Take the time to look at what the issues are and what part you took in creating them, then figure out how you will make a difference in the relationship, by the choices you have to make. Create happiness and joy maybe read a self help book assisting you with different ways to treat the issues at hand, you may become a better person re create the person they fell in love with.
If you should meet them in the same dinner you chose to eat at, don't be afraid to go and say hi, but keep it short and sweet and like always keep it positive, no digs and move on with your evening. You may consider calling them after a few weeks and letting them know you miss them and say you have been busy and you have to go.
Should they call and tell you that they want to talk, then keep your distance, don't allow them to touch you but a good bye hug would be excellent.
By choosing in this way, it will give them a greater need to miss you and more likely to make the first move opening up communications to getting your ex back.
