subject: How To Know If Somebody Is Right For You 2 [print this page] How To Know If Somebody Is Right For You 2
You can tell if a person's right for you by the things you see them say and do.
You can tell if their smile is genuine or fake. A fake smile may show teeth but there is no excitement in the eyes.
The eyes dart back and forth looking in other directions, which shows their mind and interest is some where else. Their body is more rigid, in a kind of like, Ok, but I really don't want to be here kind of way. The facial expressions looks kind of dead and it has no enthusiasm showing.
But genuine smiles show you teeth and wide open attentive eyes fixed only on you.
They won't keep checking their cell phone every 5 or 10 minutes and you will see the interest and attraction in their eyes.
Their eyes light up, the cheeks raise and the face looks alive and cheerful. You see plenty of body and hand movement and you may get touched on the arm, hand or shoulder. Interested people will want to put their arm around you or touch you as they talk.
Their eyes have life in them when they talk to you. You can see the excitement and interest in their face. They go out of their way to come by where you are just to speak or smile.
They invite you to lunch and maybe even to go shopping with them. They ask for your assistance to help them do something just to get in your presence.
You can hear the sincerity in their voice, as opposed to the ho hum voice tone of the uninterested person. You get no excuses when you ask them out to spend time with you.
It's always sure I'd love to.
And if they really weren't able to make it at that time they would give you a definite time when they are available. And they never ever leave hanging.
They will sound happy when the date is made and disappointed if you can't make it.
But the uninterested person will just say sure no problem and not pursue any future date because the uninterested person can take it or leave it.
The interested person stays in touch daily, because they are thrilled about you. The wrong person may only get in touch with you occasionally, like when they feel like they need some.
So learn to read the signs in the eyes, one spells excitement and the other spells lies.
And learn to hear, the enthusiasm in the voice; because this is your future so make the right choice.
