subject: Get Your Ex Back - Do's and Don'ts to Make Your Ex Regret the Break Up [print this page] Get Your Ex Back - Do's and Don'ts to Make Your Ex Regret the Break Up
After a breakup has occurred, you can be a ball of crazy thoughts and intense emotions. It can be nearly impossible to sort them out enough to find a way to get your ex back, when you desperately need them back. To avoid the major pitfalls to get your ex back and to bypass mistakes most people make, follow these simple do's and don'ts to make your ex regret the day they let you go.
Don't beg your ex to take you back, don't try to convince them they've made a huge mistake even if you have graphs and charts, don't plead or promise to do or to become or to stop doing whatever you think your ex might want to make them give you a second chance, and don't cry. If you must do any of these things, write them down in a diary, lock it up and wait a week or two before reading it again. When you do, you'll be glad you heeded this advice!
Do allow yourself to be as happy and as joyful as humanly possible! The point is to make your ex regret not being with you so you can get them back. You will never get your ex back by moping around in dirty old rags, in a depressed funk all the time. They'll be glad they let you go when they did. If you are happy, you will get your ex's attention and they will begin to wonder what is wrong with them.
Do move on with your life or make it seem that you've moved on even if your heart is stalled. Date other people casually, without leading them on, so you can learn how to enjoy life and have a good time, even if you are saving a place in your heart for your ex. When your ex sees or hears what should have been the worst news to you wasn't, they'll be so astonished that you are so 'cool' about things, that they will want to hurry and get you back to keep someone else from beating them to it.
Don't be in a hurry to get your ex back, even though you really are in a hurry. You must avoid contacting them at all costs. Once the ties have been severed and you have all your stuff and your ex has all theirs, don't pick up the phone or hit 'reply' to their emails. They will always contact you, to make sure you're like all the others-hopelessly waiting for them to come around. You must be different. The longer you go without contacting them, the more their interest will grow, and the sooner you will get your ex back!
