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Men love the company of physically attractive women. It's just a fact. Every type of face, figure, and body type is appealing to different men, so you don't have to be a Hollywood bombshell to attract the man you want. Not only do different men like different types of women, but a good woman becomes more gorgeous the more a man gets to know her.
If every woman had the same enticing kindness in her eyes, wit, and personality a man would select the one he found the most attractive. But hardly if ever are all things equal. Women are different, and once men get past the initial attraction phase there are more characteristics that are needed to keep him attracted to you.
If you want a solid foundation for a lasting relationship, here are some things you should focus on so you can be the most appealing woman in the room:
1. Dress for Success with Men " A lot of women say they want a man who will like them for who they are and not for how they look. But if you want to get a man's attention, you'll have to present yourself appropriately. Femininity is what really draws a man to a woman, so make sure that is shown in your attire. The right amount of skin and beauty will jump start a man's desire to get to know you. Wear outfits that you have received compliments on before.
2. Play to His Masculine Nature " Do not start off by trying to "one up" his every boast or belittle his every action. The first date is not the time for you to get in a belly-bumping contest over who is going to pay the tab. The 21st Century feminist in you might be chomping at the bit to flex your muscles and exert your equality, but there will be plenty of time for that later. The truth is, if he doesn't feel appreciated as a man, he will move on, or even worse you will feminize him.
3. Carry Yourself with Self-Confidence and Pride " A confident woman is sexy and a real turn-on for a man. A woman who has belief in herself will attract a lot of men because she is comfortable in her own skin. Men like to be around women who do not constantly need to be validated.
4. Display a Happy Spirit " Happiness is contagious, and a happy woman is very appealing to a guy. A man can tell if you have a lot of issues, and he will avoid you like a ticking time bomb. Men want to be needed, but not by a woman who is dependent on him for her happiness.
5. Be Open to His Little Gestures of Affection " Your approval means a lot to a man who is trying to prove himself to you. When he makes the effort to do something nice for you, a warm sincere smile will mean the world to him. He gets his happiness from making you pleased. Don't fight it. Just enjoy the attention and repay him with your accepting smile and gratitude. Your gentle appreciation will keep him interested and attentive.
