subject: Body Language and Attraction - Key to Flirting With Men [print this page] Body Language and Attraction - Key to Flirting With Men
The idea is to be subtle, yet effective enough that he will not really know what hit him. You can convey interest, attraction and have him dying to know more about you with the right body language attraction techniques.
While words are effective, many use them to the point of overkill. Sexual innuendos leave little to the imagination. You want to get his imagination in full swing and since men are visual, this is very effective.
Be aware of his masculine presence, feel it breath it, focus on it. That is the key, tune in, then the rest will come naturally, but if not, well there are some examples below.
Lean into him, turn you body towards him at a slight angle if sitting beside him. Slowly and deliberately cross your legs, you knee or foot should brush his outer leg oh so slightly. Catch is eye when this happens and smile, not a broad smile, an innocent smile.
Touch his arm gently if he makes you laugh, toss your head back just a bit. Don't linger on his arm, just touch and go. 3 second rule. Put your hand on his upper or lower arm, count to 3, then remove.
When walking towards him, swagger. The sway of the hips is powerful. Shoulders back, arms by your side, and head up. Catch his eye, smile. It's like telling him, I am walking this walk just for you.
Touch your head to his shoulder if you get such an opportunity. Nothing speaks the power of feminine, masculine dynamics more than this. It's submissive and oh so feminine which makes him feel oh so masculine. Men love this.
Visual props such as bend over in front of him if you can will conjure up all sorts of images in his head. If he makes a snide remark, brush it off. Innocent little you would do no such thing. Leaning across him to reach something is bold yet very effective also.
The goal here is to make him feel like a man. Nothing makes a man feel more like a man than a woman who is showing him interest with body language attraction. Body language in flirting is very effective in this. Those women with all that flirty banter won't have nothing on you. Subtle, yet just enough to show him your interest in him as a man works wonders. Don't be afraid to practice flirting body language this until it becomes second nature.
