subject: Being Good Faliures [print this page] Being Good Faliures Being Good Faliures
Every moment of everyday always seems to be the perfect opportunity to fail at something. Nothing seems to go right. We fail to do right, we fail others, we fail ourselves, we fail to have a vision for our future and to top it all off, we fail to see ourselves beyond faliure.
We know all to well the success of faliure; we become very good at making excuses to validate our shortcomings. Listen to the motivational faliure in you and you soon begin to believe that today is the first day to mess up the rest of your life.
Knowing that nothing right comes from someone so wrong puts a heavy burden on us. The joy of a new day is replaced by the longing to go to sleep, to shut the world out. Everything becomes a tiresome task as your energy levels become low and your general health suffers.Life seems to straighten outinto anuphill struggle.
If you cannot think ofwhere you are going, how can you see where you are going. We become focusedto the task of verbal blindfolding; being spun around by the second handed experts who know for sure that this is your lot in life.We are lead to believe that successis found if we thenby chance bump into the piniata of opportunity. What then should be a life full of great learning experiences turns out to be a wary cycle of doubt, lack of confidence, anger, unhappiness.
It is ironic, but whoever invented the wheel probably did so with the intention of moving forward. But today we often find ourselves going around in circles, doing the same things, thinking the same thoughts.In order to move foward we need directionand the only way that can happen is to learn from our experiences, see the good in ourselves and chart a new course in faith and confidence.
No one likes to fail, but without the right perspective everything will seem like a loss cause. Everything in life comes down towhat we do with the choices that we encounter. There is nothing wrong with mistakes and there is certainly not anything wrong with you for making them; the negatives in lifeare not to condemn you but to make you all the more stronger.If you are not learning you are failing, so go easy on yourself find a good vision for yourself and be a good faliure today.
