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Afraid that your marriage partner is cheating on you? Here are some information to help you confirm your suspicions.
Changes in work habits. Spouses who cheat usually go home late from work. They frequently go to business trips or any other obligation that keeps them away from home. You can ask help from your spouse's colleagues or personally visit him/her at work to, say, surprise him/her with a date or meal in order to verify or ease your suspicions.
Modifications in behavior. You will start to notice that your partner has changed his attitude. Sometimes they become irritable, then calm the next day. Their attention to you and the children is reduced. They are lazy at home and usually spend time outside. There is also an abrupt changes of his/her behavior.
Suspicious messages. Does your spouse's phone ring in the middle of the night? Is he/she transfering rooms when talking to phone? Suspicious calls is one of the signs of a cheating spouse. One way to know it is by checking his/her e-mails, messages and internet activity. When confronted, cheating spouses usually deny it.
Unexplained purchases. Cheaters suddenly spend their money on unimportant things like chocolates, jewelry, or other kinds of gifts that aren't for you. You find receipts in restaurants or even motels that don't make sense.
Becoming more conscious physically. When you are in a courtship stage, appearance is one great factor. So one hint to infidelity is when your partner often go to spa and dressing better than usual even though it is not your anniversay.
Changes when it comes to sex life. There are two possible things that may happen. First, cheaters will lose interest in bed and they would always reason out that they are tired from work or simply not in the mood. The second is that he/she will have increased libido and become wild in bed.
When you are suspicious about your partner, you have to get the strong evidence and confront him/her on the proper time. Be set for lies, excuses, and denials. If all doesn't seem lost, then start taking action to save your marriage.
