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People have gone through breakups at some point in their lives. Those of who've been there would have to agree that a breakup is a devastating experience. Feelings of loss and withdrawal symptoms are only logical after a relationship ends because relationships are habit-forming.
One of the things you would want to do after a break up is to get back together with your ex and there are plenty of resources for that online. These resources, although helpful, are usually not comprehensive or thorough enough for someone who has just had their heart broken. A heartbroken person is usually irrational and will need more than the actual methods of what to do to get an ex back; they need to hear why they have to do certain things. This is where the Magic of Making Up by TW Jackson comes in handy. It focuses primarily on getting your ex back and thoroughly explains the how's and why's of the steps required. It is the best guide you can have that'll help you deal with a breakup successfully. I was able to get ahold of some tips from the manual. Here's a sneak peek of what you'll be getting.
If you want to get your ex back, make sure you follow these rules: agree with the breakup, avoid contact, value yourself, be deliberate and use the Instant Reconnect Technique.
First, refusing to argue about the breakup is a crucial step in getting your ex back. It is very counter-intuitive but it works. Your ex will be able to see that you two can still agree on something through this. Second, you should give communication with your ex, either through email, phone, etc, a rest. This will give your ex a time to reconsider his decision and even miss you. Your goals is to play it cool and end up pulling him rather than pushing him. Third, you want to be able to put the word out there that you are okay on your own; that you're confident enough. One way you can do this is to fill your calendar with uplifting and esteem-building activities. Lastly, take the slow route. When you finally establish contact with your ex, you'll have plenty to talk about but never jump back into getting back together. You want to gain back their trust, not scare them off. Once you get past this, you can whip up the Instant Reconnect Technique where you can reconnect with your ex through a little inside joke or other little things you used to share and only you two share.
Discover more how-tos in the Magic of Making Up. Other product that might interest you is Save My Marriage Today by Amy Waterman.
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