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Having an orgasm is not the only way to enjoy sex, but a woman's ability to have one can be very healthy for her and her inability to have one can cause much frustration. Inability to climax during sexual activity can be pervasive and debilitating. Often a woman feels there is something wrong with her, or feels frustration that she can come close to climax and never actually reach it.
When a man fully satisfies a woman, he frees her from harboring negative feelings such as frustration, disappointment, and anger. Men should consider what it would be like to make love without ever achieving climax. The thought alone should be inspiration to leave no stone unturned in the quest to give her the utmost pleasure when making love. When he fulfills her, her passion will be released and she will be naturally motivated to fulfill him. Ultimately, both the man and the woman will benefit from increased desire as they both enjoy satisfaction.
The Key To Make Her Orgasm
Women don't easily orgasm. They are different from men in that the latter easily reach the climax. The key to true orgasm is by building up that anticipation in her and putting that anticipation down even when she thinks you're going to come. Let that desire grow on it's own, and let her itch for it:
1. Kissing - Remember, the slower and gentler, the better. Withdraw your mouth, and let go. That will make her want more.
2. Touching - Don't grope so soon when you kiss. Lightly caress her, stroke her neck, and on her different areas such as her forearm, her back, her calves and the calves of her knees. When everything is right, slowly undress each other, lay her down on the bed and continue lightly touching and kissing her body.
3. Breasts - The breasts should be handled with care. Touch them, kiss them, play with them. But remember, don't touch nor suck the nipples yet. The nipples are very sensitive parts, and the excitement will just die down if you play with them so soon. For now, just massage the entire breast area with your palm in a circular motion and flick your tongue around it. Remember the rule you're building up the excitement, so work on it!
4. Do a lot of kissing and sucking, her lips, her breasts, her nipples, her neck, behind her ears, earlobes or wherever you feel doing so. Explore her gently, please! Learn about her sensitive areas. Some women may get turned on when their nipples are kissed and sucked. Think of it as a "slow and gentle" adventure of exploration and discovery for both of you. When you hear her moans of pleasure or see her expression of pleasure, you will know that she is aroused. Your foreplay was enough.
5. G-spot, yes, every woman's pleasure spot. It is situated around one to two inches from the vaginal opening right inside the front vaginal wall. My advice is to initiate foreplay until she is aroused. Or else you may find it difficult to find this spot. When a woman is aroused, this sensitive spot is swelled up due to the rush of blood. While she is lying on her back, insert your index or middle finger into her vagina as far as it would go. The area that is rougher than the rest of the vaginal wall is the G-spot. Please do make sure that your finger is clean and your fingernail is buffed. Learn to master this area and you are on your way to "mastering" her!
6. Perhaps, she is shy to tell you but, oral sex is sure to drive her crazy. With your hands busy touching other parts of her body, put your mouth in between her legs. Lick and kiss her there. She might beg you not to stop and start bucking uncontrollably on the bed. Some women could reach their orgasm peak and release!
7. Time is of essence. Take it slow. Give her an orgasm instead of rushing for yours! Control yourself and take the time so that she has her orgasm first. If your oral sex didn't give her an orgasm, try having intercourse. Move in and out of her (touching her G-spot if you can!) until she reaches her peak and has her orgasm. Her vagina will be sensitive after her orgasm. So, when you continue your intercourse with her, she may move wildly with you to have another orgasm! A woman could have multiple orgasms without getting as tired as men!
I believe that a man should know how to make a woman experience orgasm until she is truly satisfied. This is not the only ingredient of a good relationship, but it certainly is excellent glue for binding couples closer together. When a man knows how to make love to a woman, it changes everything.
Any woman who has been constantly let down by men in bed cannot expect her fear of disappointment and her anger at the years of frustration to disappear instantly. However, these feelings will melt away quickly when she begins to have orgasms and sees that her man wants her to be as fulfilled as possible. And for men, nothing compares to having your lover respond to your touch. For couples who seek this, read the secret techniques To Give Your Girl undeniable Explosive Orgasm click here.
