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If you are really interested in getting your ex back, you probably need to learn more about the opposite sex. Not only was I able to save my relationship, I was able to make it better by learning to understand how her mind works.
It's always nice if your ex-partner is willing to learn, too. You might suggest counseling or recommend a book. But, it really doesn't matter whether our exes are willing to make an effort or not. It takes two to argue, but it only takes one to apologize.
Men and women are different. Not just in the way they look, but in the things that are important to them. They even speak slightly different languages.
If you learn to speak the language of the opposite sex, you will be surprised at how much better all of your relationships work. Talking to your children will be easier. Dealing with people in the work environment will be more productive, as misunderstandings decrease.
This may sound really simple, but it's pretty important. When you ask a man to do something, you may say "can you" or "will you". Many women think that saying "can you" is more polite. But if you really want a man to do something, you will get a better response by saying "will you".
I don't agree with all of the advice I see written on the internet about getting your ex back. Playing hard to get is often recommended for a girl trying to reconcile with a guy. While acting uninterested might work for teenagers who attend the same school or hang out with the same crowd of friends, it will not work in most mature relationships.
I was able to save my relationship by learning and understanding that women need to feel needed. They also need to feel appreciated. Everyone needs those things. It's just that those two things are very important to women.
The first step I took to save my relationship was to call her up and ask her to do something for me. It doesn't have to be complicated or difficult. It just has to be something that only she can do for you.
If the two of you are in college, it could be a question about an assignment. Just be sure that it is something she will know.
Getting your ex back (for good) is easier if you learn to appreciate the other person's interests. While it didn't help me save my relationship, it helped me improve it. We spend more time together and she really enjoys my company, which is something that most women want.
Just remember that the first step towards getting your ex back is to learn more about him or her. If you knew everything there was to know about relationships, you probably wouldn't have broken up in the first place.
