subject: How to Reverse a Break Up and Get Your Ex Back [print this page] How to Reverse a Break Up and Get Your Ex Back
Breakups, unfortunately are a part of life. Sometimes it's better to move on, but if you think you had something worth holding onto, you don't have to be so accepting. Read on to find tactics to help get your ex back, and make your breakup just a bad memory.
Before approaching your ex, you should think long and hard about what led to this. What role did you play? What types of behaviors turned your ex off so much that they don't even want to take your phone calls? The most powerful tool you may have to get your ex back is knowing how you helped create this disaster. Often couples patch things up without this new foundation. When this happens, it is more likely to lead to a permanent split. Moving forward from this point means avoiding the same mistakes.
Keep your distance for awhile. You don't want to appear to be harassing your ex with phone calls, texts and emails. These premature communications can lead to insults, and more anger and fighting. Just give yourself and your ex some time to sort things out. With patience, you can get your ex back! The key here is to disappear completely enough that your ex can begin to miss your being around.
While you are keeping your thoughts on your own faults, and you are letting your ex have some space, you should do something more to occupy and even improve yourself. Pick up a hobby, or indulge in a long-held passion. Get a membership to the gym where some of your friends go. Create a new, improved version of yourself, complete with a new look and a new hairstyle! You will grow happier and more well-adjusted, and this will make your ex all the more attracted to you. If after these changes you still want to get your ex back, they will likely be ready to work it out.
