subject: How to Win Your Ex Back Using the No Contact Rule [print this page] How to Win Your Ex Back Using the No Contact Rule
You might find it hard to believe that no contact will help you win your ex back. How can you win your ex back if you can't tell him/her how much you miss them, and how much you want to be together again?
Look at thing the other way round. You will see that you only sound desperate and immature. Is this what you want to see in your ex? No, it's not. It's very, very wrong. So STOP! Stop calling, texting, emailing. Make yourself unreachable. Here's why:
You will give your ex enough time and space to sort things out and get in touch with their feelings. In the same time, you'll give yourself more space and time to get in touch with your feelings as well. So it will do you both good. Think about the ways you could do your relationship better, the mistakes you made, even if trivial, and how can you make sure you won't repeat them again.
Besides thinking about what happened, you should also get psychical. Going to the gym will make you feel better, stronger, and will make you look hotter. Plus, it will keep your mind off your ex, while you spend some time working and improving yourself.
Also, start catching up on your reading, meet up with your friends and family, start involving yourself in activities that you enjoy. Feel good about yourself, so that you look good. Feeling good and looking good will help you gain some confidence, which is always sexy.
After some time of no contact with your ex, you'll get a call from him or her. They'll want to know what you've been up to. When this happens, you can decide if you want to meet with your ex for a chat, or you're better off.
