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It can be hard to move on when your ex has broken up with you. There are so many feelings involved, often irrational feelings. Sometimes irrational feelings make us say and do things we don't mean, like breakup with someone really special.
Here are some sure signs your ex wants to get back together:
1. Has your ex apologized?
Often an apology means different things to different people and you know your ex best. Some people can verbally apologize and not mean it, so look for signs. If your ex has feelings of remorse or regret, if they talk about the past longingly, if they haven't tried to move on, perhaps they want to get back together.
2. Do they enjoy spending time with you?
Are they spending time with you? If you answered yes to any of the above, your ex still cares for you and wants to keep you in their life. If they had moved on, you probably wouldn't hear from them again.
3. Does your ex get jealous?
Do they seem territorial? Are they stalling on their own personal life? If your ex wants to get back together, it can be hard to keep that from you for long. Their true feelings for you will always surface. If you mention someone else, if you start dating someone else, or another person tries to flirt with you in front of your ex, watch what happens next. If your ex seems jealous, if they make a rude comment about the person, it could mean they want to get back together, that they want you for themselves.
4. Is your ex nosy?
If your ex is asking questions about your other relationships or if you've met someone, they probably want to know whether or not they still have a chance or they might be ready to make their next move.
5. Silence.
If you finally meet someone and gush over that new person to your ex and there's silence, or a hesitation in your ex's voice, you can bet they are feeling remorseful. Perhaps they feel like they've lost you for good. If your ex wants to get back together and they exhibit these signs, the ball is in your court to decide whether or not they will have a second chance with your heart.