subject: How to Get Your Dating Site Game On: 5 Tips For A profile Beautiful Women will Be Drawn To [print this page] How to Get Your Dating Site Game On: 5 Tips For A profile Beautiful Women will Be Drawn To
If you want to meet sexy and intelligent women on a dating site, you should try to reach as many as you can, in the shortest time that you possibly can. This will give you momentum and keep you from being overly eager toward any one woman.
To do this you need a profile that catches the eye of the kind of women you like.
There are 5 things you can do to increase your chance of meeting someone who is right for you.
1. Show your own sense of fun or humor: Show that you can have fun (if depression, anger, your job or other things are an issue and the fun is not there, before you can address those things).
Don't try to be like some comedian, but show if you are a bit silly, quirky, etc. If you can't think of humorous things naturally don't worry about it at first, let your humor come out in its own good time.
It helps if you read about and can talk about something that struck you funny, or what type of humor you like (So and so makes me laugh my head offgive actual known person).
This way you up the chances to find a girl with similar humor style. Psychologists have proven that people who laugh at similar things have natural rapport.
2. Know Your Core Focus: Mention what is non-negotiable. Such as: "I love playing guitar and play often." or "I can work 12 hours -- I love this business". If it's your kids, or lying on the beach doing nothing that you enjoy, say it. If a girl can't accept that about you, you won't have to meet and waste everyone's time.
3. Be in control--Have a plan and do it, versus being done to: You are not waiting to see what she says. It is good to be manly ask her out, versus waiting for her moves.
It's not "whatever you want" nor is it "my way or the highway". It is good to say where you want to go, but also give her a chance to have her say.
4. Build Your Value: Never invite the bum's rush. The term "bum's rush" originally meant: when a bum came into a bar, who was obviously broke, someone would grab him by the collar and belt and throw him out the door.
You have value; she needs love, sex, companionship as much as you. Build your value in her eyes. Take stock of what is good about you, for example:
You help people in a jam, you can calm an upset person, cook great dinners, you have lots of money (only if you really do), are a great pet sitter, your friend has horses you can ride any time, you can teach her to rock climb...mention 2 or 3 things of value that you are willing to share.
Once you build value, then you are a challenge as you have several things she wants.
5. Be your true self If you really are a biker, corporate man, hippie, etc. say so. You won't be able to pretend once you are face to face.
Avoid dating site magic formulasthose are fine for players, but you want a great life shared with a beautiful woman.
The cool thing of a dating site--you can say who you are instead of going by looks, meeting someone in a bar. The internet can make better matches then were possible when you only had the people in your city, or tiny newspaper ads to choose from.
Now write your profile, answer the ad from that cute girl who lights your fire (you know? The Doors song...) No matter what dating site you try, start with a profile that your best matched, most sexy kind of women will be drawn to.
Now you have the knowledge to create an attractive online profile, how to get a girl to like you and how to get a girlfriend shall not be an issue anymore.
