subject: How to Become a Fabulous Prize and Make Your Ex Desperate to Get You Back! [print this page] How to Become a Fabulous Prize and Make Your Ex Desperate to Get You Back!
It may be inevitable. You may be pretty sure that your ex will want you back. But there is a big difference when comparing the feeling that you "got back together" against the feeling you will get if you make you ex desperate to get you back.
If your ex is to come crawling back to you, you must be a prize worth crawling for! You can't just look the part of the prize, you must be the prize. After your breakup, when the initial tide of devastation has receded, do not waste any more time looking like you just survived a natural disaster. Pick yourself up and go toward turning yourself into a real catch!
First, don't stop doing the things you love. Even if it involves things you did as a couple, don't let that stop you. If it is your interest, then own it! Who says you must share it eternally or never do it again? Seeing you be able to enjoy yourself the way you always did when they were around will make your ex desperate to get you back. They will be reminded of the fun things you two shared.
Stay very visible, but unavailable. If your ex wants to talk, you really should be too busy for any lengthy conversation. Quick hellos, and apologies that you must be getting somewhere should be the extent of your contact for awhile. You cannot make your ex desperate to get you back, if you seem available whenever they want you.
Finally, celebrate your fabulous self! Show your self-confidence in the colors you choose to wear, your stylish hair, and the smile upon your face. Looking, feeling, and being your best will make you a highly desirable trophy. And if your ex is an ego-driven individual, like so many people are, he or she will not settle for anyone else winning a trophy that they could have had.
