subject: Getting Your Ex Back - Don't Lose Your Self Respect If You Want to Get Her Or Him Back! [print this page] Getting Your Ex Back - Don't Lose Your Self Respect If You Want to Get Her Or Him Back!
When your ex is a very special person for you, and you still love him/her, you would do almost anything to get him/her back. However you do not want to loose your self respect when you try to get him/her back - your pride doesn't let you do this. So how can you get your ex back and still keep your self respect?
The first thing you need to do is to regain your self-confidence. After a break up most people feel insecure. This insecurity isn't attractive at all for nobody, especially for your ex. If you want to get your self-confidence back, you need to start taking care of yourself - inside and outside. Once you do this, you'll feel secure again, and this will give you an inner glow that your ex will see and will be drawn to.
Even if it's hard you have to admit that you made mistakes. Your ex will be surprised to see that you have the maturity to admit and accept your mistakes and your part in the breakup. Seeing this, your ex will have the deepest respect for you and our honesty. Respect will lead to admiration, and admiration means that you have a chance to get your ex back.
Kick it up a notch, giving yourself a makeover, and rediscovering your strengths. Your ex already knows your special talents, but he/she will now see them in a new light. Also, keep in mind that when you boost your charms, you'll attract not only your ex but also other potential dates. This isn't bad at all, especially because jealousy will make your ex want to have you back.
Finally, you shouldn't wait for your ex to make the first move. Your ex might be too proud to approach you, even if he/she wants you to get back together. What you need to do is to flirt with your ex, but without letting him/her know what you want. You must tease them to the point to where they will build up enough courage to ask you to come back to them. And this is your goal!
