subject: When All Hope Seems to Be Gone, How Will You Ever Get Your Ex Back? [print this page] When All Hope Seems to Be Gone, How Will You Ever Get Your Ex Back?
Your heart is broken. Your relationship is over. All hope is gone of ever getting your ex back. Or is it? Believe it or not, you must let them go to get them back! Here is how!
There are two sides to a relationship. The good and the bad. The good is all the love you two share together. Doing special things or going to your special places. The bad is all the bad things you say to each other, the complaining, the neglecting, the not caring. Then, the relationship ends because the bad took over the good.
You both inflicted the damage and pain. So, you need to act like adults and let each other go. This is the best thing to do at this moment and time. This will be how they will come back to you.
Now, being separated you can both clearly think about this relationship and what does it truly mean to both of you. Do you still want them back? Do you still love them? What was broken in the relationship and can it be fixed?
Do you know your ex still feels this same way too? If they still love you, they think it is also hopeless to get you back. They are trying to see what happened and how can things get better if you two get back together.
So, after a while, call up your ex and say you would like to meet. If they say no, then you know it is truly over. But, if they agree to meet with you, there is a sign of life. When you meet, do some catching up and some your sorry. Let them know the mistakes that were made and you are willing to fix them. Your ex will probably do the same thing. Now, you have hope!
