subject: Sex Will NOT Help You Get Your Ex Back! Don't Even Think About It! [print this page] Sex Will NOT Help You Get Your Ex Back! Don't Even Think About It!
Some may say sex matters about 75% in a relationship. They are wrong.
I'll say it loud and clear each time some abandoned, broken hearted person asks me whether sex is good in making their ex get back to them: sex is just a complementary activity that has kept you two together for a while. Other values are more important.
If you believe that sex has plaid such a humongous role in the cohesion you your couple, then why aren't you still together as we speak? It is logical to believe that, if your sex life has remained as passionate and satisfying as before, other reasons must have been more important in your ex's decision to break up with you.
Going from a normal sexual life to a zero sexual life can be frustrating and hard to bear. This is still not a strong enough reason to keep having intercourse with your ex. Instead of turning sex from a couple adjuvant into a disgusting routine (yes, it's possible!), you have to bring out the reasons why your lover would really want to be with you again.
Sex is cheap. It is available everywhere at any time. Trust, love, intellect - now here's something you can't find at every corner of the street! Having sex with your ex partner will transfer that "Cheep" feeling towards your entire relationship.
Not even the "sex buddies" concept will do you any good if you want to get your ex back. Sex buddies do not get emotionally involved and they only "use" each other for hormonal release. You definitely want more than that from your loved one!
So, instead of using sex as a tool to attract your ex back into your life, you should remove it from the equation.
Do not expose yourself any more. Leave room for some mystery. Make yourself desired as a whole - body, mind and spirit - not only as a chunk of meat.
