subject: Is Sex a Good Tool If You Are Trying to Reunite With Your Ex? NO, it is NOT! [print this page] Is Sex a Good Tool If You Are Trying to Reunite With Your Ex? NO, it is NOT!
Many women may throw tomatoes at me, but sex is nothing special. Anybody can experience intercourse with anybody; that doesn't mean that having sex with someone equals showing love to that person or that your sexual partner has madly fallen in love with you. It will NOT help you reunite with your ex!
Here are a few good examples to clear that in your mind: rapists doing their thing, prostitutes carrying out their "duty", long term prisoners in jail, drunken people having sex.
Due to the extreme examples above, you are still not convinced that having sex with your ex will help you get that person back. Further more, you still enjoy the feeling and strongly believe that the good chemistry between you will eventually win the case. Sex is probably the thing that got you two into a relationship in the first place and feelings occurred afterwards.
WRONG THINKING! Relationships based on sex don't last long and the individuals generally don't feel the need to reunite with their partners after a break up. It is more like a mutual agreement, not even a real relationship.
By having post-break up sex, you are doing nothing but to expose yourself even more and determine your ex to see you as a cheap piece of meat he/she uses to fulfill carnal pleasures. They might also think that you are using them for the exact same reasons, and this is the road to killing your emotions and true feelings for each other. There's no way back from that road.
I'm not telling you that sex is bad, but I am asking you to be a little more rational about it - as weird as it may sound! Don't make it casual, don't rip it off significance and most of all, do not think it's the only way to reunite with your ex!
Reuniting with your ex is about solving your problems and trying to revive your feelings, not falling into traps over and over again.
