subject: Get Her Back After The Breakup – Tricks You Never Thought Of! [print this page] Get Her Back After The Breakup Tricks You Never Thought Of!
Do you think that the way to get your ex back is by being nice or by trying to talk her into giving you another chance? Have you promised that you won't make the same mistakes again or that things will be different this time if she will just take you back? The road to winning your ex back is not by following the traditional methods of conflict resolution and the warm fuzzy therapy route. No matter what anyone says, you actually stand a better chance of driving her away for ever by following this advice.
You see, by being nice you are actually coming off as weak and needy. Just think about it. Who is nice to someone that has just broken their heart? Why would you go out of your way to be nice and accommodating to someone that has just rejected you? Can you see that by being overly nice to your ex you are causing her to view you as having very low self esteem and at the same time you are boosting her self esteem? How awesome do you think that she feels when you are nice to her and willing to do anything to get her back? Yeah she feels pretty good about herself right about now.
At the same time, it is not necessary that you be mean to your ex or go out of your way to be nasty to her. Such behavior will only seal the deal and cement her resolve to never have anything to do with her. If you do have to have contact with your ex keep things civil while keeping the conversation short and sweet.
No Contact If at all possible, try to avoid any contact with your ex for a short period of time. This will give the two of you time to allow emotions to settle and the smoke to clear from the wreckage. This period of no contact will also give her the opportunity to begin to miss you and think about what life is going to really be like without you. It might be difficult to resist the urge to contact your ex but your ultimate success hinges upon your ability to give her this time.
Meanwhile, you should be working on a plan to get her back. You need to be learning what works and what won't when trying to get her to change her mind about your breakup. Half measures will get you nowhere and it is time to man up and do what is necessary to get her back before it is too late.
Emotions One of the most effective ways of getting your girl to change her mind is by appealing to her emotionally. As you know, women are emotional creatures and your ex's heart will always over rule her mind when it comes to relationships. No amount of logic will change her mind but if you can appeal to her emotionally and make her feel passion, love and those tingly feelings that most women crave then you will have her eating out of your hand.
Without the emotions and desire that she wants and needs and desires welling up inside of her when she sees you or thinks about you there is little chance of her ever changing her mind. But once you learn how to push those emotional hot buttons and bring out the love in her heart that she has buried, you won't be able to keep her from wanting you back. She will be properly motivated and she simply won't take no for an answer when she decides that she wants to be with you again.
