subject: Subtle, But Oh So Effective Ways to Get Your Ex Back Fast! [print this page] Subtle, But Oh So Effective Ways to Get Your Ex Back Fast!
Your family and friends are all telling you to get over the break up and forget about your ex. But... this is impossible - you want to get your ex back, whatever it takes. You miss your ex like mad, and feel like you are slowly dying inside and the only thing that will help is if you are back together again.
What your family and friends are suggesting to you is easier said than done. You cannot simply switch off your feelings like that. How can they tell you to get over your failed relationship - they don't know how you feel inside? It's good that you feel this way, if you had of listened to them I would say that you're giving up hope of ever getting back together again.
As long as there's hope and the slightest chance for reconciliation, then I say grab it with both hands. Give it a try - if you don't you'll never know if you could have got together again or not, now would you?
I can agree with your friends and family on one thing though. Obviously you can't just get over the break up in the blink of an eye - this takes time. I do agree though, that you forget about your ex - for a while at least. There is only one reason why I'm saying this, and that is to give your ex time to think things over.
This is one of the subtle ways to get your ex back. He/she doesn't know it yet. But this is one step closer to getting back together again. The next thing to do is to get yourself looking and feeling great again. You didn't call your ex crying and sobbing about getting back together again, so you will definitely not appear like a weak-kneed idiot to your ex.
On the contrary, when your ex next sees you, the shock of the total change in you will show on your ex's face - absolute amazement! How on earth could your ex have walked out on this vision? This is yet another subtle way to show your ex just what he/she is missing, and encouraging him/her to call you and ask you to come back again.
Suddenly, the shoe is on the other foot - it is not you who is yearning to get your ex back, but your ex who is becoming quite desperate and is trying to pluck up the courage to call you and ask you to come back again!
