subject: How to Use the No Contact Rule to Get You and Your Ex Back Together Again? It WORKS! [print this page] How to Use the No Contact Rule to Get You and Your Ex Back Together Again? It WORKS!
If you are reading this, then you are curious to know more about the no contact rule. You have heard about it from your buddies before, but now it is your turn in the hot seat. Your ex and you had a terrible break up and you want to contact her so bad! Here is why you should not do this!
When you break up, enforce the rule. You may not totally agree on this, but you both are currently mad and hating each other. This will give you some breathing space.
This is also called a cooling down period. Let your ex relax and release some stress. Just clear your minds from all the negative things that were said. You will miss each other terribly, but you must remain strong and get through this separation period.
Do not even think about playing childish games through family or friends. Do not send text messages, do not answer the phone, and just do not do anything stupid.
While you are apart, you both will constantly be thinking about each other. Your heart will ache for their touch and just simply hear their voice. This will make your love grow stronger for each other.
You will start thinking positive again. You will start seeing changes within yourself. These changes are healthy so you can get your relationship back.
Pretty soon your ex will want to talk one on one. Do it slowly and catch up. Be good friends again, start dating, and start getting to know each other. Look at the reasons why you broke up.
You will be so glad you used the no contact rule to work on bringing your relationship back full circle!
