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Is your marriage failing? Want to learn how to fix things before the apples turn sour? To discover the secrets on how to save your marriage please read on.
Why waste your time sulking in the corner about how depressing your marriage has become? Doing this will never fix things, it just takes you off the marital path leaving you to forever wander in dismay like a stray dog.
To improve both you and your partners life the easy way, all you need to do is get off that high chair of 'I'm right, you're wrong' and start working things out before all hope is lost and you no longer have a marriage.
If you are a sensitive, also alert person, then you will obviously notice the early stages of a marital breakdown. Being this type of person will help you to keep on top of things and erase the symptoms of a neglected relationship.
One of the first signs of a failing marriage as you may have already noticed is a severe lack of communication. Both parties seem to reject or even ignore each other's words. What was once an easy thing is now an uphill struggle where either side is vacant of appreciation towards each other.
Being 'too busy' or neglectful can often see many couples turning their relationship into a competition. This can engage verbal and intellectual challenges, which often highlight the amount of real time that you spend together.
If you truly do not want to part ways and want to continue to live under the same roof with love and respect for each other, then there are a few actions that you can initiate.
Firstly, make sure that all of your wrong judgements and mistakes of the past are clearly owned up to. Secondly, begin new channels of communication which do not denounce your partner in any way, THINK POSITIVE!
Remember to respect and give helpful acknowledgment to decisions and priorities your partner may undergo. The sole way to save your marriage is to prevent it decaying anymore than its current state.
The quicker you react to signs of boredom and stress, the higher your chance is of retrieving a good relationship. But remember to resist laying your self esteem on a plate to save a relationship. This will only temporarily fix things, and the hole that you partially filled will soon become empty.
