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Many men believe that when women reach a certain age, they're not interested in sex anymore. Basically this is hogwash. In fact, the opposite is true.
Woman and men's libidos are not matched by any means at least in the beginning. A woman starts her sexual peak beginning at the age of 30 to 35 and it lasts well beyond her menopausal years, contrary to what most men think. By the time a woman reaches her sexual peak, you might compare her libido to that of a 15- to 17-year old boy.
Then why aren't married couples having more sex?
By now, most of us know that men are stimulated visually. This is not at all true for women. They are not stimulated visually.
And reaching for the wife in the middle of the night may not always get the reaction you desire.
A woman's erogenous zone is not something you can touch with your hand.
Her erogenous zone sits right between her ears. That's where you need to start stroking to get those passionate fires burning.
If you don't believe this, then pick up one of those thick romance books your wife reads and peek inside. Just open up anywhere in the book and in a few minutes you'll be reading stuff that steams in your hands.
A woman's erogenous zone is her mind.
To turn your wife on you start with her mind. We all know that can be a tricky area to navigate. But nonetheless, that's where you start.
Appeal to her curiosity; arouse her desires by engaging in a text conversation with her that leaves her wondering. Start the day by telling her how much you care in a simple little text message. Send her notes throughout the day in the language in which she speaks. Be honest, be sincere, text simply.
If you've done it correctly, by the end of the day, you might find a different woman waiting at home for you.