subject: Winning Your Ex Back - What to Do If You Still Want Your Ex Back [print this page] Winning Your Ex Back - What to Do If You Still Want Your Ex Back
Breakups are never easy. You and your ex, both are hurt, and you might have some resentment and anger against each other. And when you still want your ex back, even after all that happened, you have no idea how to patch things up. Don't worry, this article will tell you how you can turn things around.
Admit your mistakes
If your ex holds a grudge against you, and usually this is the case, then you need to admit your mistakes, and apologize. When you do this, be sincere, and tell your ex that you are willing to make some changes so that you won't repeat the same mistakes twice.
Gain your ex's respect
If after you broke up, you call, text and email your ex constantly this will show how desperate you are. Nobody likes this, especially our ex. You need to gain your ex's respect by moving on with your life. Pull yourself together - your ex will see that you handle the break up with maturity and dignity, which will gain his/hers respect.
Take care of you
When you were in the relationship, you most likely didn't do all the things you used to do. You neglected yourself, your friends, your family, your hobbies, etc. You need to start taking care of yourself: give yourself a haircut, go to the gym and meet with your friends. Make yourself look good so that you will feel good. When you feel good you will have an inner glow which will attract other potential dates, and your ex. When your ex will see that you're in demand, he/she will want you back.
Sit back and relax
Once you've managed to do all of the above, you need to sit back and relax, since it's only a matter of time until you'll attract your ex's attention again. So, let your ex do the next move, and when this happens, be sure that you hit the jackpot.