subject: Things I Have Learned From My Relationship Falling Apart [print this page] Things I Have Learned From My Relationship Falling Apart
The end of a relationship for most of us feels like the need of life for a lot of reasons. The emotions are so raw and the hurt so deep that at times it just feels like there will never be another tomorrow where you will be happy.
My boyfriend were together for 10 months when one day everything came crashing down on me. That was a moment where I felt like I really did not want to go on, and of course I was determined to let him know how much I loved him, that is when the begging started.
One of the first lessons I learned is never to beg your lover to stay in the relationship. When I was begging him, I thought he would be able to see that I loved him so much, that I could not go on living without him in my life, but what that did essentially was make me desperate in his eyes.
The other lesson that I have learned not to do when a relationship falls apart is to not promise him that you will change for him. A lot of the time when a relationship fails we blame ourselves. We think if we were one way our lover would love us more, and as a result we try to be more of what they want us to be.
For a while it might even seem like it is working but the real truth is that it will not work in the long run. You should never have to change who you are to get love or feel loved, if someone loves you for real, they will love you for you who you are.
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