subject: Get Your Ex Back Following Just One Rule - No Contact [print this page] Get Your Ex Back Following Just One Rule - No Contact
So, you want to know how to get your ex back. It doesn't matter why the break-up happened. One thing is for sure, it makes you feel bad, and you'd give anything to get him or her back. Being without him/her is like a living hell every day. However, you can change that, you can get your ex back. Read more to find out one simple rule that will turn your love life around. No contact is the name of your game!
After a break up, most people start calling, texting or emailing on a daily basis their ex, and thus the harassing begins. Believe it or not, this is isn't your best choice. What you're telling your ex in doing so is "I'm immature and I can't handle this". So, what you need to do is stop. Don't contact your ex anymore. Don't call, don't text, don't email. No contact whatsoever. This is the only rule you need to obey.
You might think that not contacting your ex is the worst idea. Not quite. What you are doing, is giving him or her enough time to make a decision regarding your future. The same applies to you. Think if getting your ex back will improve your life during this time of no contact. Your ex will be doing pretty much the same thing. If your ex still loves you, the lack of contact and the constant thinking of you will make him/her miss you. And that's what you want, don't you?
Respect your ex and give him/her enough time to think it over. Doing the same yourself, will benefit you as well, as already said. The no contact rule is a blessing, because if your ex still loves you, you can be sure that he or she will come back to you. It has worked for me and it will also work for you if you implement it in an intelligent manner.