subject: Winning Strategies to Win Your Ex Back [print this page] Winning Strategies to Win Your Ex Back Winning Strategies to Win Your Ex Back
The most common feeling when a lover leaves is that it is for good and such decisions are usually irreversible, but the contrary is also true. You can actually win your ex back, provided:
o You do not hang all over him or her and beg and plead for them to return. o Do not try to talk them into coming back - explaining with justifications and logic.
o There was strong bond of love and respect between the two of you.
o Use techniques associated with emotional blackmailing to win your ex back.
o You approach the entire exercise with a positive state of mind. The more negative you think of the prospect of winning your ex back, further you go from your desired goal.
o You are ready to deploy some time-tested strategies to get your ex back rather than groping in the dark and wasting your time in devising 'clever' ways to win them over.
I presume that you and your relationship is in line with the above pre-conditions to win your ex back. Here are some winning tips to get you started:
o When did you take a last look at yourself? How do you feel mentally and physically? If you can take some time off and focus on your looks and improve the state of your mind - you might end up not just looking good but feeling good and happy also. Remember, this is the way you were when your ex met you and fell for you. So, to reunite with your ex, you would fair well, if you brought back your old looks.
o If you are under the impression that to get your ex back, you need to constantly follow up with your ex, think again. It works the other way. The further you go away from your ex, your chances to win your ex back improves. This means that you need to severe all contacts with your ex at least for a month of so. If you do not allow your ex to miss you and realize your worth, how can you ever expect him or her to come back to you?
o Allow adequate time and space between the two of you. A broken relationship does horrible things to the mind and for that mind to think clearly again, takes time. Therefore have patience, forgive your ex for the hurt and make life more convenient and comfortable for your ex if you want to get your ex back.
Ultimately the referee of any relationship to succeed or fail is the amount of love and respect you have for each other. Both these aspects need to be unconditional and there are no 'if only' situations when you are in love.
