subject: How Does the No Contact Rule Help You to Get Your Ex Back? [print this page] How Does the No Contact Rule Help You to Get Your Ex Back?
The 'no contact rule' simply means making no contact with your ex. It simply means breaking all contacts with your ex and be incommunicado. And how does that help you in winning your ex back? We shall try to treat the topic here.
Your ex, just like every one else will feel really bad after a breakup. The fury, anger and bitterness will be at their peak at this point, so they won't even be able to reason with you in this state. Trying to speak with them is like trying to reason with a mad person or trying to point the way to a blind person, it will be an effort in futility.
When you give them space, you will be allowing your ex to calm down. They really need time to get over their fury and the pain they may have felt at the break up. They will have time also to think over all that could have led to the break up in the first instance and they will therefore be able to reason if the break up is worth it.
Your consistent calls wouldn't have allowed them to do such thinking. This recollection may even be all that your ex will need to have a change of heart and come back for you. Your incessant calls will only make your ex see you as 'a pain in difficult places', which is not good for the reconciliatory effort.
So when your ex, who has gotten over the pains and fury of the break up, now realizes that your calls aren't coming anymore, he/she will begin to desire your calls to come back. You would have become a scarce commodity.
The truth about life is that we don't know the value of what we have until we loose it. So when your calls stop coming, your ex will begin to remember all the good times you have shared together and surely he/she will like to come back for you.
