subject: Will He Fall For You? Turn the Odds in Your Favor [print this page] Will He Fall For You? Turn the Odds in Your Favor
When you meet a great guy, how can you know if he will fall for you? Is there a way to tip the scale? What happens when a guy falls head over heels? Of course, there is no magic bullet. But you can learn to play your cards right, and get the right guy to fall for you.
Love tip #1 Have some fun.
Don't get so caught up in forcing a relationship that you forget to get to know him as a friend. Also, you don't want to put on so much pressure that he decides that he wants out. Remember that having fun together is the way to lay the foundation for a relationship.
You don't have to be sexy and seductive all the time to get someone to fall for you. Guys want to know that the woman they like is someone who can relax. So, don't be afraid to get a little silly at times.
Love tip #2 Don't talk about yourself all the time.
Are you trying really hard to impress a guy you like? A common mistake is to show off too much. If you keep pushing to tell him what a wonderful person you are, you might not realize that you are just talking about yourself all the time.
Don't force your wonderful self on him. Let him discover it for himself. You don't need to lay it all out there, or you risk appearing self-absorbed.
Love tip #3 Take things slowly.
This can be a hard one to follow, especially for women who think they've found the one. Strong feelings of excitement and desire to be connected can tug at us when we're falling in love.
Try your best to slow things down. You don't want to hold on so hard that he decides that he needs to escape. And, as strongly as you might want this, you need to take some time to make sure this is right for you, too.
Love is a strong emotion that makes us feel invincible and vulnerable at the same time. Use these tips to negotiate this delicate time, and he just might fall for you before you realize it.
