subject: Learn to Flirt – How to Talk to Guys and Be Remembered [print this page] Learn to Flirt How to Talk to Guys and Be Remembered
Would you like to learn to flirt like a pro? Do you get awkward around guys you like, and end up feeling like you made a fool of yourself? How many times have you kicked yourself for not having the courage to talk to a guy? Here are a few tips to get you over that awkward meeting, and let you learn to flirt with some confidence.
Flirt tactic #1 Ask questions. If you show some interest in him, he'll reciprocate. You can also avoid having to worry about what to say if you get him talking, instead.
Just remember not to be too nosy. You don't want him to feel like you're giving him an interview. Silence is ok every once in a while, but you can also find out what he likes if you just ask a few casual questions.
Flirt tactic #2 Once you learn to flirt, you'll know that you shouldn't be afraid to give compliments. When you show that you like someone, they tend to like you back. So a little appreciation can really get you noticed.
This doesn't mean that you should gush over him. A little praise goes a long way. All it takes is an "I'm impressed" eyebrow raise. Or an enthusiastic "nice!" in response to something he says or does.
Flirt tactic #3 Treat him like you would anyone else. It will help to make you more comfortable if you pretend he's just another random person. You don't get nervous talking to your friends, for example, or the guy (or girl) behind the cash register at the store.
Remember how you talk to guys who are interested in you, but that you have no interest in? You're nice and polite, but in a tolerant way, not a nervous way. You can afford to be interested in the conversation, because nothing's at stake. Treat him like that!
It's okay to feel nervous when you are talking to a guy you like. But you can learn to flirt with a little practice, and come across as cool and collected.
