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What if you could avoid first date mistakes, and get to a second date? Are you ever left thinking you had a great time, only to be disappointed that he didn't call again? Would you like to learn to approach that first date with confidence? Learn to avoid these first date mistakes, and sail through to date twoand beyond.
Mistake #1 Being negative.
Negativity is a top turn-off for men. If you complain about your job, the food at the restaurant, or how your ex treated you, you can be perceived as nagging, whiny, and unpleasant. After all, you can't have a fun date (he certainly can't) if you are under a black cloud.
Mind your manners, too. If you are rude to waiters or strangers, that is a big red flag for him. And, why shouldn't it be? No one wants to be embarrassed by a date's behavior.
Mistake #2 Giving him the third degree.
You might think you are just showing interest and getting to know him. He might feel put on the spot. You will of course have questions to ask your date, but be careful not to pepper him with question after question, or you're making one of the major first date mistakes.
Remember, you are trying to see if you can have fun together. He is not a candidate in a job interview. Keep thinks light and easy for that first meeting.
Mistake #3 Pushing your agenda on him.
A woman who knows what she wants from life is usually confident and attractive. But, be aware of giving an impression of trying to fit him into your itinerary before you even know each other.
You might want marriage, three kids, and a house with a white picket fence within the next five years. But, for now, all you need to ask yourselves is whether or not you want a second date. You don't need to settle your life plan over dinner.
Dating is fraught with pitfalls. When things go right, it can be wonderful. But things can also go wrong very quickly. If you learn to avoid the worst first date mistakes, you can ensure that the path to future dates is a little more smooth.
