subject: Military Single - Finding the Signs for Commitment [print this page] Military Single - Finding the Signs for Commitment
Nobody knows better than yourself, about your commitment to your Uniform Dating. But how do you know if your single military man is ready too? Should you consult tarots, palm readers, crystal balls, and other mystic forces?The good news is that you don't have to go to the mystic side to know what your army single thinks about commitment. The not-so-good news is that you have to have eagle eyes to spot whether he is commitment-ready or not.So take out your magnifying glass and fine-tooth comb and let's go through the motions:1. The three F's: Family, Friends, and Faith. Alright, so you already know that he is a military single, and more often than not, he is bound to be engaged in some violent war or another. But thankfully, most military singles have shielded themselves against being jaded.Now, you need to see if he mentions his family, friends, and faith in a good way. If he mentions his family and friends often in a nice and positive way, that is an indication that he gives value to the people in his life.By the mere mention of them, it indicates that he is not afraid to bond and connect with people, and that he is most likely to create lasting relationships.When he mentions his faith is very important. You must try to see if he has been jaded from his past experiences. If he still has faith in some higher being, then that means that your guy is perceptive to love and to hope, despite the circumstances he has to go through in his service.2. See if he mentions children. This is a particularly big deer-in-headlights topic for guys: children.So try to see if he speaks about his nieces or nephews or younger siblings or younger cousins (assuming he has some), or the children of his friends. If he does speak about them, and speaks about them in a positive way, then most probably, your guy is open to the subject of having kids in his near future.This is good since he is showing that he is thinking of starting a family of his own, meaning that he would most likely go for a serious relationship with a woman. Good news for you, for sure!Also, once you feel comfortable enough, you can ask him if one day he wants to ask kids. If his answer is "Definitely, yes" or some other variations to the affirmation of the question, then that's good. If he answers "NO" or a vague "MAYBE" then give him a small amount of time to get used to the idea.3. Check out the E: ETHICS. And no, ethics is not equal to religion.Try to see what his moral values are, and how he feels about them. Studies reveal that men who have a good and outstanding moral code are more likely to commit to a woman, compared to those who don't have them.Besides, if church and faith, and things like praying, reading the Bible, and going to church, are a big and important part of you, then of course, it would be very advantageous if those things are important to him too.
