subject: Letting Go Of The Fear [print this page] I have heard several speakers describe fear as false evidence appearing real. My own personal experiences relating to fear have all ended the same. Each situation was far less monumental that I had expected. As far back as I can remember, people told me that I have a great speaking voice and natural stage presence. I had been called upon to read in front of my sixth grade class. The beginning of the first paragraph went pretty well until I stumbled upon the word mature Why in the world I had trouble pronouncing that word, I do not understand. But, stumbled I did. My teacher interrupted me and in a very impatient and condemning voice said, If you cannot pronounce the word correctly, you should sit down. Shamefully, I retreated to my seat while fighting back the tears. Year after year, you have a great speaking voice rang in my ear. One Opportunity after another was presented to me to recite or speak in front of audiences small and moderate. In most instances, I would decline. That fear of rejection had a strong hold on me and unfortunately, I would create scenarios in my head where the crowd booed and humiliated me into tears Those visions occupied my mind all because of that one incident in the sixth grade. An invisible prison had been built around me with my own hands without a warden or guards. A few years ago I was approached by a prominent trainer who solicited my help to run a local Detroit office and do presentations. I guess I got tired of living in a prison due to false evidence, so I turned the key and stepped into what is real. Reality demonstrated that I possess all that I will ever need to do whatever I desire including speaking before audiences. The only thing that held me back for many years was fear. My first presentation was a huge success! The audience count was about 300 and instead of boos and taunts, I received a standing ovation. Heres to letting go
