subject: The Poor Situation Of Lady Boys [print this page] Along with the hot showing of Chinese movie Lost in Thailand, lady boys become the hot topic again in China. Many net friends are curious about the life of lady boys. Many questions need to answer. Such as what is real gender of the lady boy, can they get marry, why do they are willing to change their gender? I hope this article will give you some answers.
It said that in Thailand, about 90% of the beautiful girls are lady boys. These lady boys are full of the shops and streets. You cant distinguish the real women and lady boys unless you look them very closely. Most tourists said the lady boys are more beautiful than the real women, but you never know the Harish behind their beauty.
Earning money is the main reason for men to choose to be a lady boy, so most of the lady boys are come from the poor family. After they make this choice, they will find to be a perfect lady boy is too difficult, they must endure the great pains from body and mental, besides, making money is not very easy to a lady boy. They relayed on the hormone pills to keep their girls looks and figure, and that against to the nature development rates. So, they get old soon, 17-20 years old is their best age. After this age, their masculinity will come very clear, with their girls behaviors; they will be very ugly and be hated by their family. That is why the lady boy pageant provisions that all the competitor shall not be more than twenty years old. Only 10% of men in Thailand choose to be lady boys because of gender identity. According to the Thailand law, lady boys are still men, but in the ordinary life they are treaded as women.
Though in Thailand, lady boys are not discriminated by others; in the street you can see lady boys selling cheap sketchbooks and cheap scrapbook albums to the passerby; in the school, you can see lady boys dancing with cheap pom poms. But to be success and earn lot money is more difficult than the ordinary people. Only few lady boys can be as famous as the star in the performance groups. Most of them are working very hard to support their poor family and prepared for their old age (most lady boy will die at the age 40). The unknown actress in the performance group has a poor salary, about 5 baht per month (about $ 1.00). In Bangkok, living with this salary is very difficult. They have to face up with the hard life and have no chance to have a real romance. When they are older, no people want to see their performance, some of them will beg in the street, and most of them will enter into the eroticism line.
Many people are curious about their love story, as we taught that love is the only thing has no limit in this world. However, only 1% of lady boys have love experience, but at present, none of them marry to happy. Even though, they are so lucky to meet someone dont mind their identity, their love will meet many obstacle that ordinary people cant image. Through the surgery, they can have female organs, they are real man in the mind, and their mode of thinking is male, I believe no one will accept to marry a man as wife except guy.
After reading this article, you may know more things about lady boy, I hope we can respect them, don't treat them as dolls.
