subject: How To Pick Up Women - 3 Tips For Making The Approach [print this page] So, you want to get good at being able to pick up women, do you? Well, if that is the case, then one of the first things that you are going to have to work on is making the approach. You really can't expect to be successful at picking up women if you can't make that first approach. Luckily, it can become an easy thing to do when you know what works and when you have a little more experience.
Here are 3 tips that are going to help you get better at picking up women by making a successful first approach:
1. If you want to make a good first impression, you have to smell good and look presentable.
You could have an awesome line, have great game and still end up falling flat on your face if you reek when you walk up to a woman or you look disheveled like you just got out of bed. Put some effort into your appearance and make sure that you look presentable and you smell good before you decide to approach a woman. It's an easy thing to do, but it is something that a lot of guys don't really put any thought into at all.
2. Use open body language when you start talking to a woman.
Your body language can end up turning off a woman and that is something that you don't want to have happen. Keep your body language open, as it comes across as more inviting and friendly and also gives the impression that you are confident. You don't want to close yourself off, because that make you seem standoffish or insecure and it can become an instant rapport breaker.
3. If you use a pick up line, don't try to be too serious with it.
A lot of guys will hear a pick up line that they think is going to be totally effective and then they deliver it a little too seriously and it ends up being one of those ones that women hear all of the time and it comes across as kind of phony when that happens. It's okay to use a pick up line, just don't try to come across as being too serious when you use it.
Is it easy to pick up women? It can be when you know what it is that you are doing and you get some experience under your belt. It might take some time to get "good" at picking up women, but it will be worth the effort in the end.
