subject: How To Flirt With A Woman - Without Drifting Into The Friend Zone [print this page] Can you flirt a lot with a woman and still wind up being seen by her as just a friend? Yep, you bet you can. Most guys that end up in the friend zone with a woman whom they would rather be dating end up there in spite of the fact that they DO flirt with that woman quite a bit. See, you can be the kind of guy that she likes to flirt back and forth with and still end up being seen as more of a chum than a potential boyfriend to her, and that is a concept that a lot of men just don't seem to get.
Here are 3 tips for flirting with a woman so you don't end up drifting off into the friend zone:
1. Your flirting cannot be just a whole lot of complimenting.
This is almost always going to put you in the friend zone with a woman. Compliment her all day long and she'll probably like it to some extent, as it is going to be a little bit of a self esteem boost to her. However, it can easily come across as being a little phony, and it can also make her feel like she doesn't want to lose you because of the fact that you do end up boosting her self esteem. What safer thing is there for her to do than to put you right smack dab in the middle of the friend zone?
2. Your flirting also can't be you buying her lots of stuff.
This is another way that men will "flirt" with a woman they like. They want to buy her things to get on her good side and they want to buy her things so that she will think that they are awesome. Well, she probably will, but that doesn't mean that she is going to want to end up in bed with you. More than likely, you'll either become a shopping buddy or just a source of gifts to her and not end up as her lover if you do this.
3. You have to be able to make her feel sexual tension in order to advance things.
Ask any woman about their guy friends and it will be clear that there is no sexual tension or sexual chemistry and that is the main reason why their guy friends are just friends and nothing more than that. If you want to make a woman want you, that sexual tension has to be present and it has to be alluring to her.
