subject: 3 Signals That Reveal Cheating [print this page] Cheating is the bane of all committed relationships. Cheating partners have caused more pain, suffering, and life changing damage than any other tragedy that can happen to a relationship. Why people continue to cheat is a mystery given that most people know the consequences aren't going to be good. The only thing that you can do in that situation is to catch the cheater as quick as possible so you can decide what you want to do with your life. Being with someone who you suspect of cheating without proof can be one of the harshest punishments a person has to endure. Here are some subtle signs that point to cheating:
1. Faraway look: Most people daydream, but they usually don't daydream all the time. Most people daydream when they get bored, or they simply don't have anything better to do. When you start to notice that your significant other is in la-la land all of the time this could be a sign that someone else is on their mind. Your partner is thinking about the time that they've spent with their new lover, and this is the reason for the dreamy look in their eyes. This can definitely be a sign of infidelity if it happens when you're talking to them, when you're trying to interact with them, and when you're trying to get closer to them. They're rejecting you because you're interfering with their thoughts about the other person.
2. Easily angered: You can have the most even tempered and laid back partner that there could ever be, but when a person is conflicted and feeling guilty about things that they're doing it's very easy for them to lose control of their emotions. When you have someone who all of a sudden is getting angry frequently and more quickly than they used to you just might have a problem. This person is angry, because they're thinking of all the consequences that will happen to them once the affair is found out. They're ,also, thinking about how they can continue to keep the infidelity hidden from you so that they can continue to spend time with the other person. If everything you do is causing your partner to become upset with you there definitely is a reason other than you being you.
3. Missing bills: Bills are a part of life. So it goes without saying that bills don't come up missing unless someone purposely chooses to lose them. When you can't find the phone bill, or credit card bill on a regular basis the best explanation for that is that your significant other is hiding them from you. Now, if your mate doesn't have a horrendous shopping habit, and the two of you have always looked at the bills before it should seem odd that they are now nowhere to be found. Phone bills are concrete evidence of contact with the other person and so are credit card bills. By hiding this information from you your mate can continue to conceal the affair that they may be having.
Just one of these things isn't definite proof of cheating, but when taken into consideration with other actions, feelings, and thoughts that point in that direction these signs can definitely reveal if your partner's cheating on you. Cheaters have to hide their activity, because once it's found out the affair is most likely going to have to end. By knowing the signs of cheating you can put an end to being cheated on a lot sooner. You won't have to spend so much time wondering if they are actually cheating on you, because you'll know it for sure.
