subject: Inner Enemies [print this page] Life is likes a competition against usLife is likes a competition against us. someone can win themselves to gain what they dreamt for, while someone lose the competition and spend the rest lives in disappointment .We always blame the failure to enemies we meet , but we never know where the enemies comes, a few of us know that all of the strong enemies is in our mind the negative side of us. The negative ourselves is consists of 4 aspects.
Fear is one of the many enemies lurking inside us, and it is the biggest one which can destroy our faith and courage, but we are not born with courage, neither are we born with fear, most of our fear are come from our experiences, by what we have done, by what we have been told, in the real life , many people feel fear even without have a try , that because they are told the thing is dangerous, this words has been regarded as the golden saying ,some of them even copy this words on papers and even protect them with a cheap cellophane
bags ,this kind of fear is visible. The invisible fear is devastating to our ambitions, all of us has the feeling of fear, but dont know what we are fear for. Facing this situation, we need to learn to avoid it, if we have this capacity, we will not live in fear of it any more.
The second enemy is indecision. It is very common just likes the small plastic jewelry bags in the shops. The power of it is so strong that we seems can do nothing to resist it ,for it can destroy our success, love and everything we feel precious in a second. We need to conquer it step by step, when there is a choice to make, make it in a limit time, dont waste too much time on it.
The third enemy of our mind is enemy within is worry, we always controlled by worries, for someone, worry can be useful, because they can give them power to resolve the problems, but for most of us, worries are a negative psychological factors which makes us become weaker. For this enemy, we firstly need to adapt to it and them control it. When things are going not very well, we should tell us dont worry, everything will be ok give our minds a space for thinking instead of full with worries, besides, when we feel over worried , we can take a cup of tea which can helpful for clear our minds.
Fatalism is the fourth enemy of our mind. It is the best way to make despair become reasonable. We can always hear the saying that is my fate and God makes me like this, after people failed in something or have a painful experience. The question is if we think our fate is determined by someone or something, we will lose the confidence to control it and change it. We wont improve ourselves for losing the power to do everything. This type of thinking can lead a heavy depression. So, we couldnt always influenced by this thought. If we face life with a smile, God will give us a christmas organza bags inside which full of good luck.
The best weapon to conquer these enemies of mind is knowledge, if we know more about fear, indecision, worry and fatalism; we will find that they are not indestructible. We can win them by analyze them. If we overcome these enemies, success will be a piece of cake.
