subject: How To Approach A Woman Without Making Her Feel Like You Are Just Trying To Pick Her Up [print this page] It's an easy mistake to make and all too often, guys make this mistake and don't even know that they are doing it. It's one of the main reasons why so many guys think that approaching a woman is so hard to do. What am I talking about? I am talking about making the mistake of approaching her in a way that makes her feel like you are just trying to pick her up. Even if that is what you are trying to do, if you want to have success when it comes to approaching women, you have to know that coming across that way is going to be detrimental to your results.
Here are some tips on how to approach a woman so it doesn't look like you are just trying to pick her up:
1. Ditch the pick up lines, especially if you found them online.
I have yet to come across a list of pick up lines that didn't sound like examples of what not to say to a woman. Most of the ones that you'll find are so played out, even women that don't get approached that often have already heard them before. If you don't want to sound like you are just trying to pick up a woman... you need to ditch those lines and be a little more "real" than that. Even just saying, "hey, what's up" will gain you more ground than most pick up lines will.
2. You need to also make conversation that is a little deeper than just telling her you like what you see.
Okay, so if you really want to come across like you are not just trying to pick up a woman, then you need to come up with something to talk about with her after you have made that initial approach. And it has to be something more meaningful than just remarking on how good she looks. Otherwise, it is still going to come across like you are just trying to pick her up, even if you didn't drop a line on her.
3. Give her a real reason to exchange numbers or to meet up with you later on.
You want to make the approach so that you can either get her phone number or get to spend some time with her, right? So, you have to find a real reason that she should either give you that number or meet up with you. For example, if you start talking to her and she talks about how she loves '80s music and you happen to know a club where they play that kind of music - that is a real reason to want to get her number or meet up with her.
