subject: Methods To Pick Up Girls [print this page] Getting a girl takes style; picking up one is an art. There are boys who are naturally gifted with thispicking up thing, and there are some who are clueless.
If you think picking up a lady is hard, well you're wrong, an expert (coughs) of picking up a lady is here to share effective methods.With the following tips I have, you will become the pick-up artist to watch out for in no time.
Heres a sample situation; let's pretend you're in a bar with your friends. You see a beautiful girl and she happens to be your type. Do you know what to act at this point of time? No? Do you really like her? Show we go on attack mode? Now?
Well, first of all, do not be desperate.
The easiest way to getting yourself shot down is to appear desperate, and trying too hard flashes the desperation warning signs in bright neon colors faster than you can mention your pick up line.
Be confident and in control when you approach her. Have the power to control yourself, act with honor.Then go for it.Learn from this lesson. The greatest hindrance in picking up women is you. Truly, the worst enemy lives inside us.
Now, like a detective, try to find out if she's really interested in knowing you.
Do you have plan B in case all things didn't work out according to plan? Nope. I got none never think of failure!
Again, be in control of the situation - assess first. Make everything flow.
Do not place her on a pedestal. You should be wiser than that, remember: acquiring her heart is not yet the mission, not yet. You read it right. Approach her without implying you are going to "pick" her up.
You approach her to find out if you can like her. Her appearance should not be the reason why you want to pick her up. Know her holistically; focus not only on her pretty face but also on her character or how she behaves.
If you don't have feelings for her, then just walk away. Be the pilot of the entire game.
Always have the confidence; being afraid will lead you to nowhere. Be cheerful so that the girl will be cheerful also. If you manage to make her enjoy your company, then you are already halfway there.
Remind her of your beauty. To her, her beauty is yesterdays news. Be honest when saying a compliment. Open up sweet topics and interesting stories.These tips will be good for you, be calm. Practice makes perfect. Learn for yourself. Improve your skills by talking to girls whom you do not know. Good luck on picking up girls.
