subject: How To Make Her Want You Sexually - Why You Have To Risk Her Rejection [print this page] Let me ask you this -- have you ever been in a situation where you really wanted a woman to want you sexually, but for some reason it never seemed to play out that way? If your answer is yes, then you will want to pay close attention. There is a reason why it seems to play out like that and a lot of it has to do with whether or not you are willing to risk rejection. It's something that you have to be able to deal with if you want to learn how to make a woman want you sexually.
Why?
Because women are just not that attracted to guys who play it too safe. That's how you end up feeling like you are trapped in the friend zone with a woman. You have to be able to make a move to escalate things physically with a woman, or else, if too much time passes - you are going to be seen as a friend and nothing more than that to her. And most of the time, that means that the chance that she will want you sexually isn't very good at all. Most women don't feel that way towards guys that they consider to be friends.
Don't get me wrong, you can't just make your move haphazardly and expect that she is going to feel like she wants you sexually. You have to be able to escalate things the right way. You have to make her feel a desire to be touched by you, a desire to be kissed by you, but once she feels that desire... you have to follow through. Not being able to follow through is one of the most common reasons why you'll end up being seen as just a friend to her.
The reality is that most guys are afraid to make that move because they don't want to be rejected. The thing that you have to keep in mind is that if you don't make a move on her, she may not reject you... but she is also not going to feel the way that you want her to feel. What is worse? The potential rejection or the potential that you end up being seen as just a friend to her, someone she would never sleep with, while you wish that she would see you that way?
You know what would be worse. It would be worse to be seen as just her friend and to know that she will never ever want you the way that you want her. So, no matter what, if you want to make her want you sexually, you have to be able to risk her rejection.
