subject: Dating Tips For Men - Should You Use A Pick Up Line? [print this page] When looking for ways to attract women, a lot of men will turn to using pick up lines to try and break the ice and to create attraction. However, for most men, this will end up with more rejection than it will success with women. See, a pick up line is just there to break the ice. For many guys, they believe that knowing the "right" line will somehow give them a superhuman ability to attract women.
So, should you use pick up lines?
For the most part, NO. Only if you want to automatically be seen as a guy who is desperate to try and get attention and to get laid should you try to use a line on a woman. There are far better ways to attract her attention and to get a conversation going.
Learn to be comfortable around women.
A lot of men will struggle with trying to feel comfortable with women and this is why they resort to finding a "crutch" like a pick up line to use. When you are comfortable around women, you will be able to start a conversation and flirt with her with no problem.
So, what should you do?
Start to approach women with the goal only to be to able to start a conversation and escalate to flirting with her. When you become comfortable doing this, the rest will come much easier. You can rely on pick up lines if you choose, just realize that there is NO perfect line that you can use and that many women will reject you just for using a line.
