subject: Dating Tips For Shy Guys - You Can Still Get A Girlfriend Even If You Are Shy [print this page] When you think about the limitations that you have when it comes to women, do you feel like being shy happens to be one of them? Do you feel like that is a big obstacle that stands in the way of your success with dating? I know that it is pretty common to feel that way, but you know what? That doesn't mean that it really has to be that big of an obstacle. I mean, it is something that is going to get in the way, but it is also something that can be managed and that is going to be what you really need to figure out how to do.
You can't really just wish that you didn't feel shy when you are around women. It's not that easy. There is no magic wand to be waved that is going to make that feeling just disappear. However, there are some things that you can do that will help you do well with women even if you happen to be kind of shy.
Here are a couple of tips that I know will help you with this issue:
1. As long as you are still okay at being able to interact with a woman when it is just you and her, you should be good.
There is a big difference between being shy when you are in big groups or around other people and being shy when it is just you and her. When you are one on one with a woman you like, you have to be able to talk to her and be yourself. You can be shy all you want to in other situations, this is the situation where you can't be if you want to be able to get a girlfriend.
2. Play it off as one of your "cute" qualities.
This is something else that you can do. A lot of women do find it kind of cute when they notice that a guy is kind of shy. That is something that you can use to your benefit if you play it off as more of a cute quality and less of a hindrance that you don't want to have to deal with. This is more of a mindset kind of issue, but if you learn to make it become a positive instead of a negative, there are a lot of women who will start to see it in the same way.
