subject: When Is The Right Time To Have A Child, Before Or After Marriage? [print this page] We do not talk here about people that already have children or are about to have. When it comes to other people, to have a child, before or after marriage, there are many ideas:
1. The first year of marriage
It is said that the first year of marriage is major for the future. If in this period everything goes well, it means that there's a good chance the couple stays together. So, a child is welcomed.
2. Marriage because of a child
There are many couples that marry because of a pregnancy. Years ago it was a good idea, but today many say this is wrong and you can have children even if you are not married.
3. What partners want
It is very important both partners talk, express themselves and speak about their dreams, whishes, so they have an idea about their future together. They need to think well about their priorities and if the time is right to have a child that both want.
Anyway people need to know that a child is a great responsibility and not just a toy that you can dispose of if you get bored.
As a conclusion, a marriage certificate does not bring with it the ability to raise a child or offer means to sustain the well-being of the child, education included. Only a united family with a decent standard of living can offer a child a safe environment so that he/she will become a happy adult.
